
Every May, I’m gifted bouqets of joy—lush, fragrant bouquets of peonies from my mom and sister-in-law. Their gardens are bursting with blooms, but these aren’t just any peonies. These plants have history. They once grew in my grandmother’s yard, and over the past 50 years, their roots have journeyed from one garden to another, lovingly divided and transplanted with care. Each spring, when the blossoms arrive, it feels like a whisper from the past, a living legacy of family and flowers.
The scent is intoxicating—soft and sweet, like a memory you didn’t know you still had. One breath, and I’m no longer standing in my kitchen but transported to my childhood home. It’s what French novelist Marcel Proust called a “temps perdu”—the involuntary recall of a childhood memory suddenly found again through a forgotten scent or taste. You don’t need to have read his writings to know the feeling. It’s that flash of memory that comes unbidden and complete, stitched into something as simple as the perfume of a flower.
Cutting the Peonies | Timing is everything
- Head out in the morning when the blooms are well-hydrated from the cool night air.
- Choose buds that feel like soft marshmallows—just starting to open. These will gradually unfurl indoors and last the longest.
Preparing the Stems | Think Like a Florist
- Use sharp, clean pruning sheers or a knife to cut each stem at a 45-degree angle. This helps them drink up more water.
- Strip off any leaves that would sit below the waterline—this keeps bacteria at bay.
Conditioning the Flowers | Give them a spa treatment
- Place the stems in a clean vase filled with room-temperature water.
- Add a packet of flower food (or make your own with one teaspoon of sugar and a few drops of bleach for DIY magic).
Placement | Peonies are divas—treat them accordingly
- Keep the vase in a cool location, away from direct sunlight, heat sources, and drafts.
- Avoid placing the peonies near ripening fruit, as the ethylene gas produced can speed up their aging.
Daily TLC | A little maintenance goes a long way
- Change the water every 2-3 days to keep things fresh.
- Re-cut the stems slightly each time you change the water—it helps them keep sipping.
- Gently remove any browning petals to maintain their beauty.
With a bit of attention, your peonies can brighten your home for a full week or more. And every time I catch a whiff of their scent, I’m reminded of the women in my life who’ve nurtured these plants—and me—with love and care.
Did I miss your favorite flower hack? Share it in the comments below—I’d love to hear it.
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Loved this!!! Beautifully written and love the flower hacks!
I learn something evrytime I read your posts…Great recommendations next time I’m in the garden.